Someone told me last Monday using sms that quite annoys me. ‘Ndak payah la ko ajar aku,betulkan dulu dirimu’..haha..i smile to myself when I read that one..actually I give him an advice to follow up things on himself but he reply me using that words..it bugs me, but I really cant stop smiling when I look at that sms..
We give advice as and when it necessary ..some people can accept it (if they think positively), but some, cannot (for my case recently)..well, he cant accept my advice, I cannot do anything..so, I just reply to him ‘dari ko sj’..then the second sms he sent to me really makes me laugh..the English really needs an improvement (no need for me to write it here because it may cause an embarrassment..hehe)..
Ok, I know im not that good in English also, but this person trying to look cool, so he use English to express his reason..sorry buddy, your english really need improvement..try harder, ok?.SERIOUSLY...dont just sit there and play internet games or check unnecessary things..(again, im giving an advice..haha)..be more independent, be more diligent, be more proactive..
I don’t really like to argue because I don’t like being mad..nobody likes to be angry or get annoyed..especially me..who ever knew me, knows that I cannot contain myself if im angry..try me if u want to, but be warned..hahaha..
I pity that person..he said he lost his respect to me, therefore he doesn’t need my advice..well, 1 thing he should know is that who is he actually?..haha..he is nobody..so,if I don’t get his respect, will my salary get cut off?..no..will I lost my job?..no..haha..he is nobody in this life..i give advice as a friend, not as a superior or as a senior..but this fellow colleague of mine cannot accept it..well then, he is on his own..and don’t forget that if u don’t respect others, who will respect u?..haha..wake up my friend..this is the working world..
I may not work here very long like the others, but I know what my job is..and I know how to get the job done..
I always kept in my mind that life is too short to hate others..make friends, not foe..that is what my family always tell me..but if it comes to a limit, then consider trying to do something ‘radical’..haha..im just kidding..i wonder what will happen if the world is full of a person just like this ‘gaman’?..these type of person should be taught the Sabahan way of thinking..’Kasi biar sajala tu..tida juga penting’..
Well, end of the day this colleague of mine will eventually get ‘beaten up’ if he doesn’t change his attitude..i just hope that he can adjust himself to the team because the more he ignores it, the more he will lose out in this world..and I have 3 words for him ‘wake up child’..haha.
End of argument..
